Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. (Romans 12:2)
Living as a transformed, mind changing Christian comes with its complications! The world we live in is so different and it becomes cumbersome when we try to find where we fit. The good news is we don’t fit! We must stop trying to fit! Its time to change the way you think and dare to be different, to stand out, and to be alone. Love who you are and live as the word of God says you must live. No, your friends and family may not understand it, but its not for them to understand. If they want understanding, tell them to pray and ask for understanding about your new life. But don’t conform to the behavior and ways of this world. Deny your flesh, think about how great our God is and how He has made a change in your life for the better.
Continue to seek Him and as you do, you will know what God’s will is for your life.