But as it is written, “Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man the things which God hath prepared for them that love him. (1Corinthians 2:9)
God has big plans for your life, awesome, surprising plans, but He won’t force those plans upon you. God has given you free will, the ability to make decisions on your own.
If you seek to live in accordance with God’s plan for your life, you will study His Word, you will be attentive to His instructions, and you will be watchful for His signs. You will associate with believers who, by their words and actions, will encourage your spiritual growth. As you do these things you will avoid two terrible temptations: sin and not using your time wisely in a wasteful way.
Finally you will listen carefully, even reverently, to the conscience that God has placed in your heart. Open your eyes and seek all God has prepared for you.