If you want to receive the gifts of the Spirit, it won’t happened until you start ministering. As much as you might want to, you can’t wait around until you receive the gift of healing and then go lay hands on the sick, the gift of praying and then start praying, the gift of self control and then start controlling your actions. 

The power manifests as you give out. Once you step out to do the works of Jesus, the Spirit of God will back you up with His Power!